Let’s have a little heart-to-heart about December. It’s that time of year when the world seems to be wrapped in tinsel, jingle bells, and more holiday cheer than you can shake a candy cane at. But guess what? Not all of us are ready to don the elf ears and start singing carols at the drop of a hat. And that’s perfectly fine!
With some of the big Christmas adverts hitting our TV screens on 1 November and daily Christmas movies on TV and streaming services, there is no mistaking that the festive season is on the way. If you’re not quite feeling the Christmas spirit, you’re in the right place. We’re about to embark on a December adventure that’s all about you, your quirks, and your unique style of celebrating (or not celebrating) the season.
Think of it as your very own December survival kit, sprinkled with a healthy dose of humour and a dash of mischief. We’ve got alternative traditions, self-care secrets, and even some sneaky strategies for socialising on your own terms. So fasten your seatbelts, because we’re about to sleigh this December, and we’re doing it our way!

Create Your Own Traditions
Let’s face it, not everyone wants to transform their living room into a winter wonderland complete with twinkling lights and inflatable reindeer. That’s perfectly fine! This December, why not create traditions that resonate with you? How about a luxurious winter spa day? Picture it: soothing music, scented candles, and a face mask that could rival Santa’s beard.
Self-Care and Wellness
December can be a whirlwind, but it’s important to remember that it’s not a race – it’s a marathon! Take some time for self-care and wellness. Run a bubble bath, put on a face mask, and let the holiday stress melt away. Maybe try a bit of meditation or some gentle yoga stretches. After all, nothing says “happy holidays” like a well-rested, glowy goddess.
Embrace Solitude or Socialise on Your Terms
Some of us find our zen in solitude, and that’s absolutely wonderful. Consider taking a solo nature walk or curling up with a good book and a cup of something lovely. However, if you’re feeling a tad more social, remember, it’s all about quality, not quantity. Hosting a small gathering of your closest confidantes can be just the ticket. And if socialising feels like a marathon, make it a sprint! A quick catch-up over coffee can be just as heart-warming as a grand soirée.

New Year, New You … Starting Early!
Who says resolutions are only for January? December is the perfect time to set some goals and invest in your personal growth. Whether it’s mastering a new hobby, conquering a creative pursuit like painting or pottery, or simply learning something new, it’s all fair game. Embrace the challenge, and remember, you’re never too fabulous for a little self-improvement!
And there you have it! You’ve just unlocked the ultimate guide to conquering December on your own terms. Remember, it’s perfectly okay if your version of celebrating doesn’t involve jingling bells or sugarplum fairies. The holiday season is yours to navigate, so embrace it with confidence and flair.
As you tiptoe closer to Christmas, keep in mind that your joy is paramount. Whether you’re creating your own traditions or indulging in some well-deserved self-care, the key is to do what feels right for you. And if that means prioritising presence over presents, then cheers to that!
Sleigh December with your own brand of magic. Whether you’re sipping cocoa in solitude or hosting a low-key soirée, remember that this month is yours to savour. Here’s to finding joy in unexpected places and making December a month to remember, no matter how you choose to celebrate!
SJB
