For decades, society has celebrated the pursuit of a pristine, tidy home as the epitome of success and happiness. Countless magazines, TV shows, and social media influencers have bombarded us with images of flawlessly organised spaces, fostering an obsession with cleanliness and order. However, there is a growing movement that challenges the tidy obsession and we are excited about it!
It suggests that it might be time to let go of the pursuit of perfection and embrace the mess instead. In this blog, we will explore why it could no longer be trendy to be obsessed with having a pristine tidy home and why embracing the mess might lead to a happier and more fulfilling life.
The relentless pressure to maintain a perfectly tidy home can be exhausting. It demands significant time, effort and resources, often leaving us feeling overwhelmed and unfulfilled … and even a little bit miserable. By embracing the mess, we can liberate ourselves from the unrealistic expectations set by society and focus on what truly matters: our well-being and happiness. This shift in mindset encourages us to prioritise experiences, relationships, and personal growth over an immaculate living space.
The quest for a perfectly tidy home often masks the messiness and imperfections of everyday life. In truth, a pristine living space rarely reflects the realities of human existence. Embracing the mess allows us to embrace our authentic selves, recognising that life is often chaotic, unpredictable, and imperfect. By accepting and embracing this reality, we can foster self-compassion and create an environment that truly reflects who we are and how we live.
Living in a clinical show-home environment that’s lacking any personality could also be holding you back. Creativity often flourishes amidst a little bit of chaos. Allowing ourselves to let go of rigid order and tidy perfection can open up a world of creative possibilities. A messy home can be a breeding ground for inspiration, encouraging spontaneous ideas and unconventional thinking. It’s in the midst of disorder that we often stumble upon unique solutions, innovative concepts, and novel ways of looking at the world.
A perfectly tidy home can create an illusion of control, but in reality, life is full of surprises and unexpected twists. Embracing the mess can teach us to be more flexible and adaptable, preparing us to navigate the ups and downs of life with greater ease. When we are less attached to external order, we become more resilient, better equipped to handle change, and more open to embracing new opportunities.
The time and energy spent on maintaining a pristine, tidy home could be better directed towards self-care and personal well-being. By shifting our focus away from an obsessive pursuit of cleanliness, we can invest in activities that bring us joy, relaxation, and fulfilment. Whether it’s pursuing hobbies, spending time with loved ones, or simply taking a moment for ourselves, embracing the mess allows us to nurture our emotional and mental well-being.
The trend of obsessively seeking a tidy home may be losing its appeal as more people realise the limitations and drawbacks of endless plumping and chopping our cushions or organising our sock drawer. Embracing the mess offers a new perspective, allowing us to let go of perfectionism and prioritise what truly matters. By liberating ourselves from the pressures of social media, influencers and the like, we can feel free to leave a cushion un-plumped and not have a meltdown in Sainsbury’s if we can’t find a Minky cloth.
So, let’s shift our mindset and embrace the mess! Go and destroy that incredibly detailed cleaning plan you stuck on the fridge door, don’t cry next time the dog leaves nose art on the windows (you’ll cry more when he’s not here making a mess that’s for sure), accept that dust is a part of life and instead create spaces that reflect our true selves, imperfections and all.
SJB
So Just Be 