Ever scrolled through social media and come across someone flaunting their perfect life, complete with #blessed captions and endless humble brags? You know the type – the ones who make you roll your eyes so hard, you fear they might get stuck that way. But why does their fakery rub us the wrong way, and why should we focus on counting our blessings and embracing our flaws instead?
Let’s get real for a moment. We all know those people who seem to have it all together – the flawless Instagram feeds, the enviable endless holidays, the seemingly perfect relationships. They’re the ones who never miss an opportunity to humble brag about their latest achievements or drop not-so-subtle hints about how amazing their life is. You’ve seen them sharing a gym selfie in full makeup (thank god I train in a ‘no phones’ gym), or sharing photos of themselves distributing pencils to the ‘poor, poor children’ on a far flung holiday like they are Princess Di raising awareness of land mines. And while it’s tempting to feel envious, angry or resentful, deep down, we know there’s something off about their picture-perfect façade.
The truth is, nobody’s life is as perfect as it seems on social media. Behind every carefully curated post lies a story of struggles, setbacks, and insecurities. So why do some people feel the need to constantly project an image of perfection? Perhaps it’s a fear of vulnerability or a desire for validation from others. Or maybe they’re simply caught up in the never-ending cycle of comparison and competition that social media breeds.
But here’s the thing: embracing authenticity is far more empowering than trying to keep up appearances. Instead of chasing after some unattainable standard of perfection, why not focus on counting our blessings and accepting our flaws? After all, it’s our imperfections that make us human, and it’s our struggles that make us stronger.
So the next time you come across yet another humble brag on your feed, resist the urge to roll your eyes and scroll past. Instead, take a moment to reflect on your own blessings – the things that truly matter in life, like love, family, friendship, and personal growth. And remember, it’s okay to be imperfect. In fact, it’s what makes you uniquely you.
In a world obsessed with appearances and superficiality, let’s make a conscious effort to celebrate authenticity and embrace our flaws. Because when it comes down to it, a life lived authentically is far more fulfilling than one spent chasing after likes and validation. So stuff your humble brag – I’ll take realness over fakery any day.
SJB
So Just Be 